What happens when you throw yourself into the world of adult entertainment, guided by curiosity, ambition, and desire? You get Great Sexpectations, a blog where I, Vivienne Black, share my 17-year roller coaster ride through the adult industry.

From the highs to the heartaches, I’ve seen it all—and I’m here to spill the truth, no filters. This blog is my diary, my manifesto, and a space where I can be fully unmasked and unapologetic about my experiences.

Aiming for Difference

This isn’t a "blah-blah" feel good as we climb the social, emotional or professional - Whorearchy tale of empowerment... yawn!

It’s a coming of age journey and carving out your freedom when everything around you wants to box you in."


This is my story—unmasked, uncut, and unapologetically me.

Fragility, sexuality, voltaic love, abuse, high-class,
twisted drama, psycho frenemies, murders, and unicorns.

F
rom surviving to thriving with success - over and over again.

Adult Themes in Great Sexpectations:

💋 Sex—more than just fucking
💸 Monies - oh so much monies.
💥 Power—finding it, fearing it, losing it, and wielding it.
🔓 Freedom—from societal labels, from shame, from the rules.
💡 Identity—you don’t need permission to be yourself, but you may need a reminder of who you are.

It’s time to stop asking for permission and start taking up space.
Let me tell you whats in store below:

Monthly Chapters of Great Sexpectations

Starts 9pm, December 15th 2024

I’m thrilled to announce that each month I’ll be releasing a chapter of my book, Great Sexpectations! This project is a heartfelt glimpse into my turbulent and wild career, and I’m so excited to share it with you.

By signing up for a monthly or yearly VIP subscription, you’ll not only get exclusive access to each chapter as it’s released but also enjoy a host of other exciting perks.

Your support means the world to me and brings me one step closer to realizing my dream of sharing this incredible journey with you all. Don’t miss out—sign up today!

Mentor Catagory

Adult Industry Advice

Great Sexpectations is not just about my journey; it’s also a space to support others in the industry. That's why I’ve created a free adult industry advice section. This section is all about offering guidance, emotional support, and validation for those walking a similar road.

Whether you’re just starting out or you’re a seasoned pro, I want you to know that your highs are worth celebrating and your lows are valid. This journey can feel isolating, but you don’t have to do it alone.

I’ll be sharing raw insights, insider secrets, and plenty of real talk. Think of this as a place where the truth isn’t sanitised or sugar-coated. This is the reality of what it’s like to work in the adult industry, and I’m here to walk you through it.


Dear John Category

Adult Industry Client Guides

Navigating the adult industry as a client can be both exciting and daunting, which is why having a reliable client guide is essential. This guide offers practical tips and valuable insights to help you get the most from your experience while ensuring respect and professionalism.

From understanding proper etiquette to communicating your desires clearly and setting realistic expectations, this resource equips you with the knowledge to build positive, mutually beneficial interactions.

Whether you're a first-timer or a seasoned customer, these tidbits of advice will enhance your experience, promote mutual respect, and ensure you approach every interaction with confidence and integrity.



Shower Thoughts Category

Multi-Award Winning Escort Vivienne Black on candid thoughts sex, power, and vulnerability, to advice for navigating the chaotic world of sex work.

Great Sexpectations is here to embrace every part of the journey with confidence—no shame, just the unfiltered truth.

Wrap It Up!

Expect everything from candid thoughts on sex, power, and vulnerability, to advice for navigating the chaotic world of sex work. Great Sexpectations is here to empower you to embrace every part of your journey with confidence—no shame, no judgment, just the unfiltered truth.

Lick you later.

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